Wednesday 22 June 2016

It's Okay.


Against every bit of advice that has been thrown at you, today I'll propose that : maybe it's okay, maybe it's more than okay. 
Haven't we all gone through that moment in life when we have no idea whatsoever, of what we are doing and in what direction our future is directed? Those moments when we question everything letting our minds run endlessly. Those moments when you feel you graduated from the wrong field, chose an unsatisfactory career path, stuck in a mediocre relationship. The moments that question your very existence.

It's in these moments that you need to stop. Sometimes it's okay to not know. Sometimes it's really okay to not have the answers to those questions. It's okay to be confused and not know the bumpy road ahead. I mean, what can really happen if you didn't know? What is the worst that can happen? Think about it. The worst that can actually happen is that you wouldn't have it all figured out. And you didn't anyway. It's not like not knowing is going to kill you. So it's okay. Really.

Will life ever be certain? Hell, no. I don't think such a thing even exists. And what's the fun in that anyway? It is a good thing to have a vision and want your life to be a certain way but do not forget that there is a lot of uncertainty to it. Maybe the career you have today may change(it might not) or you might suddenly wake up one day without a job. The degree you thought was pointless might just lead you to the best career path. The person you loved today may change tomorrow.

The reality is, nothing is certain. There are gonna be numerous times when we don't have all the answers, and that is when we need to trust ourselves, our heart and our intuition. It's so important to focus on the present. Living for that moment and focusing on filling our lives with the energy and passion that is required to make the best of that day. If you do that it's all going to work out fine in the end.  Life is a mystery and you just have to be okay with that.  Remember, the way to creating your future is living today in the best way possible.